Paul Butler

Emotional Vulnerability Coach

Paul Butler

Hi Im Paul, I am an Emotional Vulnerability Coach, working with students, teenagers and adults, helping them build sustainable mental wellness and learning the tools to be emotionally vulnerable, learning how to heal grieving hearts and lighten the weight that loss can have on us throughout life.


t: 07517 949475


I can help you with:

  • Child bereavement

  • Spouse loss

  • Suicide loss

  • Supporting children

  • End of life support for loved ones

  • End of life support for care workers

  • Children affected by divorce

  • After divorce support

  • Grief and mental health

  • Loss after change

After leaving school at 17 with no A-levels and no real direction, I took some time in life finding what i wanted to do as a profession.


Fifteen years ago, I joined the Ambulance Service as an emergency care assistant and found a real love for supporting people with mental health problems but sadly I felt very poorly equipped with the tools to be able to help.


In 2020, I stumbled across a student coaching course which caught my eye with the slogan, “its easier to make strong children than it is to fix broken adults” that caught my attention. On a personal and professional level this resonated with me.


Since gaining my qualification, I have clocked up over 200 coaching hours with students and young adults on a 1-1 and group basis.


After enrolling in a course to help children with loss in 2019, this led me to train as an Advanced Grief Recovery Specialist, and have successfully helped many clients move through and beyond over 40 different types of loss that we may encounter in life.


Upon working with so many grieving people, I realised this was a passion close to my heart. I have since qualified as an Edu-Therapy Specialist, which allows me to offer a cognitive behavioural process for healing grieving hearts.


To add to my student life coaching qualification, I have also qualified as an ICF-accredited integrative life coach, furthering my supporting abilities to adults.


My qualifications include:

  • ICF accredited diploma in integrative coaching

  • Edu-Therapy Certified Specialist (a cognitive behavioural process for healing grieving hearts)

  • Certified Grief Recovery Specialist (an action programme for moving beyond death and other losses

  • Student life coaching accreditation

  • Mental Health First Aid certificate